5/31/2015 - "Negotiations for Beginners and Others (Who, what, when, why, and how)" with Domina
The South Bay Spot San Jose, CA
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Sunday, May 31, 2015 from 3 to 5 PM - (doors open at 2:45 PM)
Location: The South Bay Spot 973 Park Avenue, San Jose, California 95126
Cost: $5 for South Bay Spot members, $10 for non-members
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLASS DESCRIPTION: What are the potential landmines and how to "minesweep." Why you have to negotiate as equals. How to write a limits list? What to do about people who say they have no limits. When you need to be careful, and when you need to be VERY careful. Negotiation is one of the most needed skills you can develop. This class covers why negotiate and the pitfalls of negotiation as well as issues of consent and ways to avoid misunderstandings.
PRESENTER BIO: Domina has been in the scene for somewhere around 20 years, and was kinky before that: She just didn't know what to call it. She's married to her slave, Lee, and Ma'am to her girl, Meryl. They live in big house in Santa Rosa, California, with a rescued Taiwanese street dog and three cats. The cats, of course, are dominant. The dog takes refuge in not understanding English. Domina is a practicing witch and is an ordained pagan clergy person. She does volunteer work for Food for Thought, the Sonoma County Aids Food Bank, and is the originator of the Iron Dom Contest, held yearly in San Francisco as a fundraiser for charity.
Domina is a member of Exiles and is an equal opportunity sadist.
Domina, with her husband, Shep, is the owner and operator of The Frugal Domme. Besides being a toymaker, Domina has worked as a professional dominant. This has given her a lot of insight into many fetishes and styles of play.
She's been teaching for about fifteen years, and is known to have a very weird sense of humor. She's a notorious sadist, but often her scenes have a maniacally funny component. She can drive a bottom to distraction. She's been active in the community for years and started groups like the Northern California Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society, The Modesto Discussion Group, and served on the original board of the Dungeon Monitors Association.
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The South Bay Spot (View)
973 Park Avenue
San Jose, CA 95126
United States
